1. Welcome and appreciation. Your guests large distances can be crossed, taking into account the costs and their time. Undoubtedly happy to do so. At the beginning of your ceremony, appreciate them and give them value, not simply because they are with you on this special day but also because of their contribution to your life so far. A little gratitude is worth a lot. It brings people together, even those who come together in your marriage first.
2. Tell your story. A love story keeps us busy. Tell your guests what you united we stand to each other, what connects you as companions an anecdote which gives an idea of your love, that you know that he / she was the one / one and what was once you understood. What is unusual in your story?
Be funny. Be courageous. You may need a little courage to share their Orcus Love in front of your loved ones, but your guests will enjoy.
3. Ask them to participate. Most rituals I've done include a piece where families and friends can share a silent blessing, love and wishes for the couple. However, you can be creative. In a marriage, the two bridesmaids had arranged before 11 invited to stand up one after the other and to share their wishes. The mother of a groom has created a shawl for her son and her daughter-in. He placed it on their shoulders along with a wish to have comfort, share the shawl and the warmth of the future.